More and more I see this mentality that all men are the same. They only want one thing, they're all abusers and users, so on and so forth. Women in today's society have cast themselves as victims before they've ever even been so. They have cast themselves in a manner where things like this:
are just fine
make him a perverted whore who only wants one thing.
It has come to a point now, in many relationships when this:
is okay but this:
he has to stash away and hide.
In a nutshell, men are eye-candy and women are heavenly vessels of beauty and life that should remain unsoiled by the male eyeballs or the male anatomy unless at the complete discretion of the woman. And, in all honesty, ladies, most of you have done it to yourselves.
Don't flounce around in public with your hair did and your nails did, lookin' all perty then get pissed when a man looks at you. Don't publish pictures on your Xanga of you in various states of "cuteness", flirting and melting the hearts of the attractive guys then get pissed when an ugly one wants to be your friend "just because I'm pretty". This isn't to say don't do it at all but don't do it and hold these impossible expectations of the opposite sex. If you don't want to be looked at like a piece of meat, don't look like a piece of meat. There will still be those people out there who treat you this way, there's no way around it, but why open yourself up to it then cry fowl when you feel you've been "violated".
You want to see if people will love you for you, and befriend you for you, speak the truth as best you know it, don't put pictures of yourself on the internet, don't walk around dressed like a hussy because you're "comfortable" in it when obviously you aren't comfortable with the way that people (actually men
, really, let's be honest) look at you unless he's the muscular 6'1" firefighter with the killer smile.
Don't put a consumer ideal on the opposite sex then expect to be hailed as a goddess by them at the same time. If there's a spider, kill it your damn self. Stub your toe, kiss your own damn toe. You think you're fat, exercise, 'cause people's flapping gums won't get you to the body you want. People are only adding you on social media sites because you're hot... take your pictures off, put up a picture of the Virgin Mary or St. Terese of Liseiux, then see what kind of men add you then. If you know that men only want one thing then why do you continue to bait them with it?
I'm sorry but I'm just so frustrated with some of you women who hold all these expectations over a man's head and don't hold the same ones for yourselves. Some of you seriously disrespect and violate yourselves more than anyone else around you does.